保羅的外邦人朋友
歌羅西書四章12至15節
12有你們那裡的人，作基督耶穌僕人的以巴弗問你們安。他在禱告之間，常為你們竭力地祈求，願你們在神一切的旨意上得以完全，信心充足，能站立得穩。
13他為你們和老底嘉並希拉波立的弟兄多多的勞苦，這是我可以給他作見證的。
14所親愛的醫生路加和底馬問你們安。
15請問老底嘉的弟兄和寧法，並他家裡的教會安。
信息分享
以巴弗是歌羅西的信徒，所以他深知歌羅西教會的情況和需要。他沒有祈求神供應他們的物質需要；反之，他祈求神使他們在靈命上成長。以巴弗最渴望的，是歌羅西信徒能在基督裡得以長大成熟，能夠確知他們在基督裡的身份。我們最熱切祈求的是甚麼？是朋友肉身需要，抑或他們的屬靈成長？
接著，我們便看見忠心的朋友路加，和背棄他的底馬。
保羅稱路加是「親愛的醫生」。保羅擁有治病的恩賜，但他仍然要一位醫生與他同行。可想而知，當保羅生病的時候，他是準備接受醫生的診斷和一般的藥物治療。
至於底馬，保羅在此沒有特別談論他。可是，在提摩太後書四章10節，保羅則指出底馬因貪愛世界而離開他。這是甚麼意思呢？他是否太顧惜生命，以致不願意為基督犧牲？或是他被羅馬的繁華所吸引，以致離棄信仰？
我們不能對底馬過於苛責，因為我們豈不也是一樣，經常重視世界甚於基督，重視錢財的保障甚於屬靈的能力？但願我們都以他為鑑。
他們是保羅的其中一些朋友，我們從保羅在信末的幾句簡單問候，便可見保羅如何珍惜朋友。我們對朋友又怎樣呢？我們關心朋友嗎？我們會為朋友禱告嗎？願我們都反省自己對待朋友的態度，並且求神幫助我們能愛護和珍惜朋友。
PAUL'S GENTILE FRIENDS
Colossians 4:12-15
12 Epaphras, who is one of you, a bondservant of Christ, greets you, always laboring fervently for you in prayers, that you may stand perfect and complete in all the will of God.
13 For I bear him witness that he has a great zeal for you, and those who are in Laodicea, and those in Hierapolis.
14 Luke the beloved physician and Demas greet you.
15 Greet the brethren who are in Laodicea, and Nymphas and the church that is in his house.
Message
What a great illustration of the power of Christ which I transformed a narrow-minded Jew into an international evangelist.
Epaphras came from Colosse so he knew the circumstances of the church and its need. He did not pray for material blessings for them but pleaded with God for their spiritual development. Epaphras longed that the Colossian Christians might fully develop in Christ and become mature Christians, absolutely certain of their position in Christ. Which do we pray for the most? The physical health of our friends or their spiritual development?
Then there were Luke and Demas-the faithful friend and the unfaithful one.
Paul called Luke the beloved physician. Paul had the gift of healing yet he had a medical doctor travelling with him. Paul was prepared to use ordinary means and trained personnel when this was needed.
What about Demas? What happened to him? We would love to know more. Paul says nothing about him here. Is that silence significant? In 2 Timothy 4:10 Paul says that Demas J deserted him, having loved this present world. What does he mean? Did he love his own life too much to lay it down for Christ? Did the worldly attractions of Rome prove too much for him?
We must not be too hard on Demas. All too often we ourselves put this world before Christ and put material possessions before spiritual power. Let Demas be a warning to us all.
These were some of Paul's friends. Notice how much they meant to him. What about our friends? How many do we have? How much time do we spend with them? How often do we pray for them? Think over again the whole matter of friendship and ask God to make you the kind of friend he wants you to be.